When you ask for advice what are you really asking for? Are you asking someone to confirm what you’re already thinking or do you really want an unbiased opinion?
Asking for advice is tricky because no one has seen and experienced what you have, so they can never really see things from your point of view. The best they can do is based on their own experiences. Which can be helpful since it gives you another perspective but may or may not work for you.
When seeking advice try to separate the facts from emotions. Be open to advice that is contrary to your own thoughts. Don’t dismiss advice that doesn’t immediately align with your way of thinking and give yourself time to digest different and new advice. Advice that is different than the way you think has the potential to help you grow if you approach it with an open mind.
“Most people who ask for advice from others have already resolved to act as it pleases them. “ – Khalil Gibran